Sometimes I feel like I missed my calling in life. Actually, there's not a doubt in my mind that I did. I've always been a person that people come to seeking advice, or comfort. While I don't always feel like I have the right words to say, I always get a thanks & I continue to be the person who people come to for help. I love feeling like I can make a positive difference in someones life who is in need. As I've grown up I've become aware of the fact that people are often drawn to me for this reason. People I hardly know will open up to me on a personal level. It used to bother me, but I now see it as a gift. I was meant to help others, whether it be by counseling, just listening, giving advice, etc.
Yesterday a very close friend of mine called & needed someone to confide in
She's going through a very hard time and I felt this was my opportunity, to drop everything for a few minutes and to just be present at that moment for her. Sometimes I think we get caught up in life & aren't there for people who truly need us. It's not always intentional, but it happens. I had some things going on at the moment, but I knew her needs were more important. The gift of being present can mean SO much.
Second..I sent a nice text to my hubby from work just saying thanks for everything he does.He tells me a lot that I'm appreciated, but I realized I don't tell him very often. Kind words & your presence are two of the most important gifts you can give, in my opinion.
Even if you haven't decided to read this book & start your own challenge... I personally encourage everyone who reads this today to take the time to give one, or both of these gifts to someone in your life today :)
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